Tag: #goals

Being focused is not easy, especially when your brain is not ready to. Explaining your brain that you need to work hard is only a short term solution. Then how on the earth is it that we stay focused?

The answer is practical- trick your brain. Yes, a practical example or an experience can give it a boost. Lets say you want to buy a house or a car. Now, thinking about the whole day or dreaming about it is not getting you anything. But if you rather choose a more practical way, that might work. For example, you can visit a showroom and take a test drive in your dream car. Or, you can book an appointment and go for a house tour.

Now this makes your mind want it sooner which ultimately makes you realise how hard you need to work. Along with it, you can also discover yourself the answer whether you really need them in life and if not, when is the right time to achieve it.

Do you know when humans work hard? Not when they are aware of their talent but when they either feel guilty of wasting it or when they find someone else achieving it.

When i say this, i dont mean comparing yourself with others all the time. But comparing your hardwork or destination with their’s, can give you the much required push.

I, myself have experienced it. Being a student, some competition with my fellow mates, not only talls where i stand but also motivates me to work harder and better.

While the world treats jealousy as a dark emotion, let me tell you, it is not. It is bad when you go out of your emotional control to put others down or harm them. But if you are only concerned about raising your bar, it becomes healthy. In fact, most of our achievements, whether you agree or not, are the results of jealousy, competition and the need to prove.

With this, i sign off my today’s topic. Hope this helps you grow as a better and braver human. Feel free to drop your experiences and suggestions in the comment section.