If you’ve used the phrase “Oh, he’s just my friend!” to describe a close acquaintance, you should listen up! Because for I used to be one of you â the girl who friend-zoned someone so hard, that all aspects of love should have gone out the window. Dating your best friend can be a little intimidating and awkward but it the best decision you can ever make in your life. Now my boyfriend cum best friend and I are totally giving our new life a big shot by involving ourselves in our whole different romantic world. I don’t know, if I would’t have consider dating my best friend then my life would have been drastically different(maybe sad).
But here is not about my life but giving a whole new shape to your life with a beautiful person! Just imagine being with a person for the whole lifetime, who plays and understand you like a friend, supports you like a mother, cares and cooks for you like a daddy, and never let you down like a partner. Its not like usual vibe, its like a whole new vibe when you are with your partner in crime! Once just think about him/her,think you have got him/her,see if your perspective change a bit. BECAUSE EVERY GIRL HAS THAT BEST FRIEND,BOY FRIEND AND TRUE LOVE. BUT YOU ARE REALLY LUCKY IF THEY ALL ARE THE SAME PERSON.
Here are the reasons why you should upgrade him from BFF TO BF!
YOU BOTH HAVE SEEN EACH OTHER UGLY SIDE
While most of the partners have to conceal their bad side or be “Perfect” all the time in front of each other.You wont have to do that,because he has already seen your ugly side or maybe in an ugly pajama or running nose while flu and still he loves you for what you are.You are comfortable with him and you wont have to worry about him seeing you without your makeup or in messy hair.You wont even bother if he shows up suddenly at 3am night because you know he loves you as who you are.You dont have to worry about what he thinks and him feeling embarrassed because whole life you both might have been doing embarrassing things together. LOL!
YOU CAN BE YOURSELF AND HAVE FUN WITH YOUR PARTNER
When you first begin a relationship, you tend to be on your best behavior. After all, you wouldnât want to scare your new guy off before youâve had the chance to get to know each other. While you were just friends he had already know the real you.So you can just chill and be yourself and have fun, scream, cry, laugh like a donkey, he still is going to love you like he did before. He had seen all your awkward and embarrassing moments so you dont have to pretend like sombody else which you are not. But heâs not just your boyfriend, heâs your bestie. And he wonât even blink an eye when he calls you and you tell him youâre watching cartoons. Actually, heâll probably tell you heâs on the way and bringing some coke and pizzas.
YOU’VE A STRONG BOND AND UNDERSTANDS EACH OTHER’S LANGUAGE
Friendship start when you meet somebody of the same interest that you have and you tend to like that person and be friends.You both will have stronger bonds than other couples because you have same interest in common and can understand each other without even speaking a word to each other. You dont have to make the other partner understand with words as he had been used to your emotions and sentiments and mistakes. Love may start fading as you grow older but a friendship or partnership is always going to help you in long run.
ALREADY YOU DO THINGS TOGETHER
Since your relationship was built on a friendship, youâve been doing things together for what seems like forever. The only difference is that now while youâre hanging, youâll get to do the cute couple things, like holding hands and stealing a kiss. Other than that, you go about things as if nothing has changed. You get to continue doing everything you use to do with each other, but with added romantic benefits. And while you were âjust friendsâ you most likely took on a few of his hobbies. You dont also have to make plans and efforts to spend time with each other as you usually spend time with your partner since years which has been a ritual now!
YOU ALREADY KNOW EACH OTHER’S FAMILY
You donât have to stress when it comes to meeting his family. You know them and youâve been getting invited to family events for forever. His family loves you and you love them. You even consider them family. You know you donât have to work to impress his mom or dad. They look at you as one of their own. And when they found out you two decided to become a couple, they couldnât have been happier. His mom was thrilled and officially welcomed you to the family. Youâre comfortable in their company and you never run out of things to talk about with them.Â
HE SUPPORTS YOU
Whether youâre starting a new career or just wanting to join the local dance class, heâs got your back and is your biggest cheerleader. He believes in you. You know heâs there when you need to talk. And if you need a shoulder to cry on, heâll be there for you if things donât quite pan out the way you wanted them to. When you need advice or opinion then you go straight away to him, because you know he is your biggest adviser and he doesn’t gives false advise.You know, no matter what your hoping to accomplish, heâll be there to encourage you and support you at your fall.
HE TRUSTS YOU
Trust is one of the most important aspects of a relationship. Without it, you can guarantee that there is no future for the relationship. But your BFF is the first person you call when something happens. He knows all your secrets and you know heâll take them to the grave. He would never do anything to betray or hurt you and you trust him wholeheartedly. Youâre not afraid heâll bail on you last minute. You trust him enough that you donât need to think before you speak. Anything you tell him is between the two of you. And if youâre going out of town, heâs the person you trust to house sit and watch your beloved pet.
YOU BOTH SOLVE ARGUMENTS EASILY
You know each other since ages and you also had been fighting over silly things with each other since ages.So it would be easy for you both to solve your fight as you both know and understand where is your mistake and apologies without having ego. Plus, with all the history between the two of you, how could you possibly stay mad at each other? You canât. You are both too invested in the relationship to allow a stupid fight to get in-between the two of you. There is more than love between you, there is an underlying friendship at the foundation that is the glue to the relationship.
LESS AWKWARD MOMENTS
When youâre dating your best guy friend, you get to skip most of the awkward and anxiety-inducing moments. Like when it comes to paying for the date. There wonât be that uncomfortable pause where youâre both wondering if the other wants to split the check, but neither of you want to ask. Awkward. And thereâs no need to panic when youâre meeting his family for dinner because you already know them. In fact, youâll have no issue getting up to help his mom in the kitchen. Everything is just more relaxed. And every situation that could be considered a daunting moment for a new couple, wonât be an issue for you. Youâre completely comfortable in each otherâs presence.
HE NEVER FORCE HIS MANLY SUPERIORITY ON YOU
You both always had been best friends and treat each other equally. Even if he fights with you he never disrespected you and showed his superiority being a guy.He will always gave you equal importance and respect as he used to give you when you were his best friend.And you can equally participate in his decisions and choice without asking for it. He will always treat you like his queen and soulmate even after you become his girlfriend.
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